- definitely hide where I could see my mother painting in the backyard
- see the day my mom and dad where washing the car and he turned the hose on her and she doused him with the sudsy water from the tin pail
- the night my dad brought my mom home from a date and stood beneath her parents' window tossing pebbles until her dad pulled up the sash and demanded to know what they were about. It was midnight and he had asked her to marry him and she had said yes. Her father said, "About time," pushed down the window and opened a bottle of champagne.
- my dad coming off a destroyer in Boston Harbor mid WWII for shore leave
- when my dad was a boy and he and his best friend stole apples from a neighbor's orchard, got caught and had to work the season harvesting those apples
- my sister and I when she told me my dolls were actually alive. How was she so convincing?
- the day my dad took us to meet our grandparents who hadn't seen us since we were babies. How did I know Grampy's lap was the best place to take a nap?
- the day I crawled under the porch to retrieve inner tubes, knowing that dark, web-draped place was infested with spiders, and I returned triumphant with tubes for my sister and myself to go float on the lake with. She was older than I, but for that one day, I was heroic in her eyes.
- watch my husband march in Ozzie's Band when he was a clarinet-playing boy
- the day we drove up to the house with our baby girl for her first day at home
- my graduation ~ Oh heck, all three of them
- watch me on skis for the first time tumbling my way down the mountain. Maybe this time I'll laugh.
- that first dinner date with my husband. I want to know if it was visible how much my legs were shaking
- the first time my daughter walked all by herself was at the daycare center. I really wanted to see that.
- see my grandmother on her stone stoop on that tiny island in Sweden: a young woman who couldn't wait to come to America
- my mom at one of her photo shoots
- see my face when my dad told me we could just turn around and walk away, and we were in line behind the bridesmaids ready to enter the church where I was about to get married (I stayed ~ 34 years now. One of my best decisions)
- my father flying search and rescue missions for a Maryland CAP unit
- lazing around on the shores of Lake Powell or my husband's outrageous skiing technique in the side channels while other campers whooped and yelled their praise
- hear my daughter's three-year-old version of umbrella just once more
- the day I walked home from the university clinic with news I was pregnant and didn't realize I was grinning ear to ear until I was halfway to the house
- that crash landing my father walked away from that curled the tips of his plane's propeller a good foot
- my father-in-law dancing with my mother-in-law before he knew she would one day be his wife